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By Nurse Diane
From a teacher who asked her third grade to write how
they spent their spring break holiday. One child wrote about visiting his
Grandparents at their Retirement Home.
"We always used to spend the holidays with Grandma
and Grandpa. They used to live here in a big brick house, but Grandpa got
retarded and they moved to Arizona. Now they live in a place with a lot of
other retarded people.
"They live in a tin box and have rocks painted
green to look like grass. They ride around on big tricycles and wear name tags
because they don't know who they are anymore.
"They go to a building called a wrecked center,
but they must have got it fixed, because it is all right now.
"They play games and do exercises there, but they
don't do them very well. There is a swimming pool too, but they just jump up
and down in it with their hats on. I guess they don't know how to swim.
"At their gate, there is a doll house with a
little old man sitting in it. He watches all day so nobody can escape.
Sometimes they sneak out. Then they go cruising in their golf carts.
"My Grandma used to bake cookies and stuff, but I
guess she forgot how.
"Nobody there cooks, they just eat out. And they
eat the same thing every night: 'Early Birds Dinners'.
"Some of the people can't get past the man in the
doll house to go out. So, the ones who do get out bring food back to the
wrecked center and call it pot luck.
"My Grandma says Grandpa worked all his life to
earn his retardment and says I should work hard so I can be retarded someday
too. When I earn my retardment, I want to be the man in the doll house.
"Then I will let people out so they can visit
their grandchildren."
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This is National Senior Independence Month. Senior Adults are living longer, and staying
healthier. Many adult children who have
lost a parent have concerns about the remaining parent being alone, and being
able to take care of themselves. However
there are many things that can ease their fears about living alone.
1.
They can check on them regularly, or call
daily,
2.
Help with grocery shopping or contact Meals
on Wheels if necessary.
3.
Keep check on medications, making sure they
know when to take them and what they are being prescribed for. Make sure they are able to open the bottles
too.
4.
Make the home safe from falls or fires by
removing throw rugs and checking to make sure electrical outlets aren't
overloaded.
5.
Make sure there is plenty of space to move
around the room freely without bumping into furniture.
6.
Make sure there are proper locks on doors
and windows.
7.
Obtain a service to contact emergency
assistance at the push of a button.
8.
Install handles in the bathroom
9.
Make sure there is proper lighting and
working bulbs. Have a flash light handy
for when electricity goes out.
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Adults want to keep their independence for as long as
possible. My family has been fortunate,
they have all been able to stay home during their lives, and have been able to
take care of themselves with little assistance.
With a few precautionary measures, the senior adults in your life should
be able to function at home without any difficulty, if they have no serious
medical conditions that would prevent that.
Senior adults deserve our time, assistance and patience as well as our
respect. If you have any seniors in
your life who are living independently, take some time this month to check on
them and make sure they have the things they need to make their lives more
comfortable.
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