|If it were but that simple.|
By Terry Orr
We have an awesome and challenging responsibility in providing our children with the right tools, guidance, love, respect, understanding and leadership to grow up to be the best they can be and to learn the important skills to help them raise their own children later in life. The bad news – our challenges grow nearly every day and it is difficult to fully understand them and take the corrective measures needed. The good news – there are significant resources available to help us. We must be proactive.
Parental controls are features which may be included in digital television services, computer and video games, mobile phones and software. Parental controls fall into roughly four categories, content filters, which limit access to age appropriate content, usage controls, which constrain the usage of these devices such as placing time-limits on usage or forbidding certain types of usage, computer usage management tools, which allow parents to enforce learning time into child computing time, and monitoring, which can track location and activity when using the devices. (Wikipedia)
The Parent Coach Plan offers the following regarding Parent Responsibilities.
Nobody ever said that children were easy to teach your child morals and they don't come with guidelines or instructions, and they certainly don't come with a "pause" button. What they do come with is a crucial set of physical and emotional needs that must be met. Failure of the parents to meet these specific needs can have wide-ranging and long-lasting negative effects.
The following outline provides eight essential responsibilities that parents must adhere to in order to foster their child's physical and/or emotional well-being:
- Provide an environment that is SAFE;
- Provide your child with BASIC NEEDS;
- Provide your child with SELF-ESTEEM NEEDS;
- Teach your child MORALS and VALUES;
- Develop MUTUAL RESPECT with your child;
- Provide DISCIPLINE which is effective and appropriate
- Involve yourself in your child's EDUCATION; and
- Get to KNOW YOUR CHILD.
For additional information on parent responsibilities, please visit http://www.parentcoachplan.com/article3.php.
Parental Controls for Streaming Video (just another opportunity for us parent to over come)
Streaming video online is a wonderful and convenient way to watch all your favorite shows and movies – and it’s far less expensive than cable. Unfortunately, if you’re a parent, these services don’t often provide safeguard measures to block certain content from your children.
Bottom line - we as parents, grandparents, caregivers and or adults must set the example for our young people.